Social skills challenge · Warm-up
Say hi to three people
Make eye contact, smile, and say hi to three people you pass today — neighbors, colleagues, the person at the front desk. Nothing more required.
Why this works
Greeting people trains the smallest unit of social initiative: being the one who acts first. Because the interaction is over in two seconds, there's nothing to overthink — which teaches your brain that initiating is cheap.
How to do it
- 1
Pick your three moments in advance — the lobby, the coffee run, the hallway. Deciding beforehand removes the in-the-moment debate.
- 2
Make eye contact first, then say hi. The look-then-greet order is what makes it land as friendly instead of mumbled.
- 3
Keep walking. No conversation required — the rep is complete the moment the greeting is out.
- 4
Count them. Three means three; the counting turns a vague intention into a finished task.
If your brain is fighting you
If a full 'hi' feels like too much today, downgrade to a nod and a smile for the first one — then say the word for the next two. The goal isn't smoothness, it's going first. Nobody has ever kept a diary entry about a stranger who said hello to them; the interaction is enormous only from inside your head.
Felt easy? Level up
Add a name or a detail to one greeting: 'Morning, Elena' or 'Hey — good weekend?' One extra beat, same low stakes.
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